Webscribe has written an article on eHow about How to help your loved one as Dementia closes in;
Webscribe discusses how Alzheimer's and related dementias have afflicted hundreds of confused, frightened Alzheimer's residents and their anguished, caring families in facilities. The author of this article is a former nursing home administrator and recreation director.
With Dementia now closing in on a loved one in her own immediate family she offers instructions on how to help yourself and your own loved one experiencing the oncoming’s of Alzheimer’s.
Instructions
Step One:
First stage of Dimentia
This stage takes 2 to 4 years leading up to diagnosis.The person begins to exhibit symptoms of confusion and agitation (can also be caused by accidental drug interactions urinary tract infection).This is the stage when thorough testing is performed, to rule out other causes.
People who have had sharp minds become anxious, fearful of their increasing confusion and loss of control of their memories and actions, and may exhibit personality changes, avoiding people.
Step Two:
Second or mid stage
This stage's duration is for 2 to 10 years after diagnosis (the longest stage). Activities of daily living such as bathing, dressing and teeth brushing become difficult, because the person develops difficulty remembering the complex series of steps. Orientation to time, person and place deteriorates. "Did you enjoy your visit with Agnes?" "What visit? Agnes never came to see me!"
Symptoms may include increasing memory loss, confusion, and a shorter attention span, with difficulty recognizing close friends and/or family.
Step Three:
Third or end stage
This stage lasts perhaps a few years. The person may become unable to recognize family, communicate with words, or care for him or herself in any way. There may be incontinence, or difficulty swallowing. The person will need complete assistance with bathing, toileting and dressing.
The person will still be acutely aware of your kindness, your ability to understand, help, comfort, and your love
Step Four:
How to comfort
Whether your loved one is in a nursing home or with you at home, let him or her help in whatever way he or she can. If at home, let mom sprinkle sugar on the apples for the pie, or "help" you brush your hair, as she did when you were little. If she is in a care facility, tell her when you are tired or need a hug; let your loved one know you need her to give YOU comfort! You will be amazed at the emotional transformation.
Step Five:
Beyond meeting your loved one's deep need to matter to others, you can provide real comfort by understanding his or her need for routine
Step Six:
How to help you loved one as Dementia closes in
Most of all, those with dementia need to feel that no matter what they do or cannot do, you will be there for them, always. However great their confusion, the most comforting words they can hear are, "I will always love you."
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